Men have a hunger that can only be touched by the innate kind of beauty that a woman possesses. Sadly, they confuse what they need most, which is a woman’s virtue with her sexuality.
The older you get, the more you become aware that in a rush to be sexual, something beautiful between men and women is being trampled in the process – the longing that you deserve to be loved for a lifetime and not just to use and be used in casual sexual encounters.
When a man and a woman fall into bed without any promises made and no expectations to which they can hold each other, they only end up eroding their own self-worth, creating a profound emotional emptiness and selling themselves short of the best they deserve.
I challenge every man who knows that they don’t have the gift of celibacy, because they can’t keep their snake in its cage, “Stop breaking hearts and playing with women’s emotions and man up by finding someone you can give your whole self to as you serve the purposes of God together!”
Real men commit, because nothing of significance ever happens without commitment. The price of a genuinely profound and intimate relationship for a man is the giving up of self centered irresponsibility. He must yield to His instinct and desire to provide for and protect those he loves.
You can always tell when a man of character is in the house, because everyone feels safe. If everyone has to tiptoe round you, because you might have an outburst at any minute, you may feel like you can make an impact, but you’re not a man yet! If you keep troubling your family, you will eventually inherit the wind! If you keep winning the fight, but losing the person, even if fighting is your thing, you will find yourself with no one left to fight, and nothing worth fighting for either.
When you fight people you love, you only frustrate your own soul. Invest the best of who you are in those you love. In amidst all the pressured of life, don’t become monosyllabic with your family to withdraw from them. When you need space, let your wife know. If you are chivalrous towards her, you will make her feel more valuable, and that will work in your favor!
Remember, the man who has the greatest potential to steal your woman is the one who communicates with her better than you do. Listen to her; she is anointed to help you!
If you are still at the stage where you are trying to find a woman who genuinely likes you, and you are finding it hard to read her vibe, here are a few pointers that will help you get started:
- If you find her randomly around you without trying.
2. She will make eye contact and smiles at you with ease.
3. If she laughs at you, with you and genuinely appreciates your sense of humour.
4. If she get uncomfortable when you give attention to another woman.
5. If she’s playful around you and teases you.
6. When she makes any physical contact and gestures that bring close contact
7. She will investigate what you like and try and learn how and why it’s important to you.
8. When she’s always wanting to share things, including food but especially conversation, with you.Just in case it helps!